I have helped literally hundreds of people learn the techniques I am going to share with you, but one thing I must emphasize, knowing how to do these techniques is obviously very important but only by putting them into action do they really start to work for you.

I have had many years of experience working in various different fields, alongside some of the most successful people in the world. What differentiated the successes from the rest, is that when successful people hear an idea that can help them they immediately put it into action without delay

If you take away one main pearl of wisdom with you from this note I would invite you to make a decision that from now on whenever you hear a useful idea that can help you, that you do your very best to take an immediate action to put the idea into practice. Even if that action is to schedule a time when you will actually use the new idea and do something to put it into action.

There is a great power in taking a thought or an idea and turning it straight away into an action, because by doing so you are creating a channel for your potential to turn into reality.

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Nearly all the successful people I have ever met are willing to try new
things out instead of worrying whether things are going to work or not.
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People who want to get things right all the time without ever failing are people who never try anything new. They get the same undesirable results again and again because they’re so afraid of making mistakes. As Tom Watson founder of IBM once said if you want to double your success rate you must be willing to double your failure rate.

The techniques I’m about to share in the notes to come, are drawn from many years of experience applying the Law of Attraction in my coaching practice and in my own life. These ideas and new skills may seem strange at first if you have not encountered them before, but the same is true for any new skill that you have ever learned.

Anyone who has ever learned to ride a bike or drive a car will tell you that in the beginning it felt a little bit strange. Especially having to consciously pay attention to every detail, but as with nearly every skill that you learn, with a little bit of practice things will begin to feel natural until they have almost become second nature to you.

As the father of three wonderful children I am so grateful to have the privilege to watch how my little ones learn. I believe that we have so much to learn from children possibly even more than from adults. Children are blessed with an incredible ability to learn so quickly. One of the reasons is that they are willing to try new things. They look at everything as a game and turn learning into fun.

So with this in mind I invite you to play with the ideas and exercises in the following notes and enjoy what’s about to come.

Realizing the true power

I first realised the true power of these tools when I worked with a 19 year old boy who was suffering from severe learning difficulties. He also experienced vivid hallucinations whereby he would role-play 15 different people who were all criticising him and he would do this out loud in public for approximately 8 hours every day.

When he first came to me the boy was struggling with a basic IT course despite being tutored. He had very little social skills and had no friends. Within three sessions of me working with him I had reduced his self sabotaging role-playing from eight hours a day to one or two minutes.

After a few months of using visualizations and reprogramming with empowering beliefs, the boy had passed his course with distinctions. He now has a social circle and is completing a degree in University in computer science. The boy’s success was so striking that he was featured in the local papers and his story was included in his college’s brochure.

Since applying these tools in my own life I have started to see shocking “coincidences” that take place regularly in my life.

Familiarity is the number one human drive. How it was holding you back and how you can use it to your advantage from now on!

Many years ago when I was working as an assistant to Richard Bandler (Co Creator of NLP) on one of his world famous seminars, Richard said something which I only fully appreciated much later when I truly discovered its real power.

Richard said that:

“the number one drive in a human being is often familiarity over survival”.

People usually go for what they know often even when it is painful!

I will never forget being a young boy of about 11 years old at school. The teacher stood up in front of the class and told us something that stuck in my head and confused me for years. He told us that most people will not change their social class in their lives except for a tiny percentage. He told us that most lower class people were born into lower class families and will always remain lower class.

He said that nearly all middle-class people born into a middle-class families will always remain middle-class etc…

I never understood why this was until I realized how powerful the human drive is for familiarity. If poverty consciousness is all someone knows in their internal and external reality and abundance is outside of their “map” of what they can conceive of happening to them, then poverty is usually what they will be attracted to and poverty will be usually be attracted to them.

If you want to become successful in any area of life then you have to become a successful person in your mindset first. For example with wealth, you need to perceive yourself as being wealthy and have a healthy attitude towards money.

I have a relative who inherited a large chain of very successful stores. The business was absolutely thriving until he got his hands on it. He squandered most of the money and bled the business till there was nothing left within a year. Why? Because he had what I call a poverty mindset, his identity was that of a poor person and so he sabotaged his success. We have all heard stories of rock stars who reached the pinnacle of their careers and then sabotaged their success.

I also know a number of people who were millionaires and lost their fortune, only to quickly rebuild it despite the enormous debt they were in. Why? Because they had made abundance part of their identity.

Most people are afraid of the unknown. This means that when presented with an option to do something for which they have little or no direct experience of most people will choose not to do it because it’s unfamiliar, even if its something they think may benefit them.

It never ceases to amaze me in my work as a business adviser how many times I have seen people learn, tried and tested methods of marketing that have dramatically increased the revenue of many of my other clients. But when these methods are presented to people who have not come across them before, the initial reaction is often fear and a reluctance to do something outside of the model that they already know.

When we come into this world most of the mental programming that we receive we do not choose. If we are fortunate enough to be born into a loving family, with parents who have a great relationship, healthy beliefs about money and success etc then chances are high that we will follow in their footsteps because we have got used to it and have the “right” mental programme or movie in our heads.

If you behave AS IF you can do something

and you also start to envision it in your mind you can make that thing become possible and turn it into reality.

People often ask me if there are limitations to this and my answer to that is that previous generations would never have even been able to conceive of what has become possible in our generation. So I don’t like to put limits on what is possible.

Well the good news is that you can use the drive for familiarity to your advantage to literally skyrocket your success and create a new reality in your life in a fairly short space of time. How?

By reprogramming your mind and starting to visualize what it is that you want and pretend, act out and play just like a child does until wealth, health happiness and true love become part of your identity that you feel comfortable with. The good news is that you don’t need to do this hundreds of times in order for your mind to become comfortable with the new reality that you want to create.

You have to know the correct way to reprogram yourself on a subconscious level, which I will share with you. Once you have reprogrammed yourself to be comfortable with success, whether it’s financial, spiritual, emotional or physical etc, when it shows up in your life you will naturally move towards success because it is what you know, its familiar and you feel comfortable with it. When you have learned to drive this deep into your subconscious as I will teach you, you will literally become a magnet for success and you will also suddenly start noticing and acting on opportunities that in the past you would have missed.

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Love to you all

Robert